This is just an odds-and-ends post on Evaline. It's rather disjointed, so please forgive the flow. There was just too much that I wanted to say to really have it well-organized. Stay tuned for a similar one on Cora.
At a little over 5-1/2, this girl is a nut. She cracks me up, and in so many ways seems well beyond her years. In other ways, of course, she is exactly her age.
Last fall she tried out soccer - but ended up hating it. She was supposed to do it again this spring, but she hated it so much it wasn't worth another go-around at this point. She thought the sport was mean. She told me that it wasn't fair, that no one was sharing, and when she had the ball everyone tried to take it away and so the girls were mean. I tried to explain that that is the sport - but I get where she's coming from: in every other aspect of her life we tell her how important it is to be nice and to share...and then boom! Soccer is the complete opposite.
This summer she is doing both dance and gymnastics. Let me begin by saying that I'm pretty sure that I've never seen anyone with
less coordination, and who is
less physically aware, than Evaline. She is so very, very awkward, bless her heart. She enjoys both, but right now says that she wants to stick with dance (she knows that she will only get to continue on with one into the school year - I'm not trying to make her pigeon-hole herself at age 5...I'm just not paying for both), but only because she is SUPER psyched that dance has the possibility of being on stage and performing in front of an audience.
A couple weeks a go we went to the theater in Amana to see "How I Became a Pirate." The best part for her was the outdoor stage after the performance. She could have spent all day here, making up songs and dances, and performing them for us all.
This girl LOVES an audience, and has since she was itty bitty and got up on her chair to sing carols at the Wiley Family Christmas when she found out people were watching her. It's a shame that there aren't any acting camps around here for kids younger than eight. For the past few days, she's planning a performance for sometime next week - I guess she and Cora will be performing Cinderella and Snow White, and Sleeping Beauty (but that one is supposed to be a musical?). She's got the costumes all figured out, and has been working on the script (even though she can't read or write) this morning. She wanted to do some rehearsals yesterday and came inside to complain "UGH! Cora is SO frustrating! I just can't control her!"
When she gets into something, she's like girl obsessed, and throws her whole self into it. Right now she's rotating through some pretty intense interests: writing a play/movie (see above), archaeology (constantly searching our yard for fossils and making predictions as to where/when they originated), pioneer lifestyles (thank you Laura Ingalls Wilder), and Legos.
One last little Evaline story...We had sort of thought (hoped) that she'd
outgrown her tendency to get hurt in odd ways. But...in mid-May I got a call from her preschool right at the end of my school day. We're talking 2 minutes from last bell...so I didn't answer. I figured that maybe she had a fever? That can wait a few minutes. Then I got a call from Ian (he had answered). Apparently Evaline had hit her chin and her mouth was bleeding, they couldn't get it to stop. I totally thought this was an exaggeration, but left to go get her anyway. I couldn't have been more wrong.
I get there and Evaline is standing near the door waiting for me with paper towels held up to her mouth. She sees me, opens her mouth and sticks out her tongue. Which was partially severed. No seriously. The girl had fallen off a stool and hit her chin on a bookshelf. She bit completely through her tongue from the right side to the middle. We're talking a dangling chunk of tongue, just flapping around. As startling as this was, it was proud parenting moment: I didn't freak out. I just got down on her level and said "Honey, we're gonna go see the doctor." And then I even managed to not get in an accident as I sped to ER. Four hours later, she had 9 stitches in her tongue to sew it back together, and one in her cheek, too. The most amazing thing? She never cried. I mean, she probably did when it first happened, but it was over once I got there. She was pretty awesome, and the nurses in the ER gave her a Barbie for being so good - which she thought was the most wonderful thing in the world. She kept saying "I can't believe they gave me a Barbie, just because I'm a nice girl!"

And now, a little under two months later - you can't even tell that anything happened. Good as new.